FBSM - or Confessions Of A Not-So Erotic Massage Therapist

I got a question last week concerning what I know about FBSM. Well honestly, I had never heard the term before so I looked it up. Boy, did I feel stupid. FBSM stands for Full Body Sensual Massage. Personally I use the term Full Body Massage, but it also goes by:

Happy Ending Massage
Relaxing Massage
Non-Therapeutic

and my least favorite...The ol' Rub n' Tug

I feel silly because technically FBSM is what I do for a living, but I practice just 1 aspect of it which is a full body massage followed by a hand release. I guess FBSM implies more of a sexual aspect including massage techniques specifically for the naughty bits.

My technique basically consists of up, down, and repeat as necessary. As for the "sensual" aspect, I don't think taking my top off really qualifies. Occasionally I'll be asked for what I call a "soft massage" where the massage consists mostly of caressing type motions. I may also get asked to pay special attention to the balls throughout the entire massage. And I have done a couple sessions where the guy has asked me to apply the oil to him by applying it to my breasts first, then rubbing myself all over him. I guess the breast release and butt release would also qualify as FBSM techniques too. So now that I think about it, I'm familiar with some of it - I just may not practice it all that often.

However, I was actually introduced to some of the advanced techniques of FBSM a few years ago by a customer. Here I am doing this for a living, and now a customer is teaching ME some new tricks! Anyway, I was doing a mutual massage with this guy (who was a new customer at the time) when he asked if he could do a "special" massage of my groin area. At first I said "no" because it sounded like he just wanted to finger fuck me (I get this often). Then he explained it was nothing like that, so I reluctantly agreed since I was kinda curious.

So there I was... spread eagle on the table with this guy's face just inches away from my pussy. With his thumb and index finger, he starts doing this wonderful massage of my inner thighs. I mean this guy knew what he was doing. Then he works his way up until he's working the area from my taint to around and just over my lips. So he's not actually touching my pussy or the lips, but just the areas around them. Let me tell you - it was INCREDIBLE. It didn't exactly get me aroused in a sexual kinda way, but it felt amazing nevertheless.

After several minutes of bliss, he asked me to do it to him. I figured it was the least I could do for putting me on a cloud. Every time after that, I DEMANDED he do that special little massage for me. The first time, I swear I had trouble walking afterwards. It was funny because I had a boyfriend at the time and he noticed I was walking with a slight limp that night. What was I going to tell him - that it's just a normal workplace accident for me? LOL

Unfortunately for me, that customer is long gone. So what I've resorted to now is teaching it to a couple of my favorite regulars - guys that I know I can trust not to try and stick a finger in me. As for returning the favor... I save that little gem for special occasions when I really want to demonstrate my appreciation of a customer. What about the boyfriend you ask? Well, I couldn't exactly try it on him, now could I? What was I gonna say - "Hey honey, Iay back and relax. I wanna try something on you that I just learned today from a total stranger"? That moment had to wait for the NEXT boyfriend. Oh well, his loss.

CJ